The Advice I Wish I Had Heard Sooner
We often hear, “If only I knew then what I know now.” But what if we actually sat down and listed the things we’d tell our younger selves? The lessons that could have saved us from stress, confusion, or unnecessary struggles. If I could go back in time, here are three crucial pieces of advice I would share with my younger self.
1. Understand Money—Don’t Let It Control You
Finances always seemed like something to worry about later. Budgeting, savings, and record-keeping? That felt like a problem for future me. The result? A financial learning curve that was much steeper than it needed to be.
Here’s what I wish I had done earlier:
- Start saving small—even if it’s just 10% of any money received.
- Learn about budgeting apps to track expenses.
- Understand the power of compound interest—investing early makes a massive difference.
Money isn’t just about having enough—it’s about managing it wisely. If I had known this sooner, I would have made smarter choices and avoided unnecessary financial stress.
2. It’s Okay to Cry Before Finding Solutions
Growing up, I believed that showing emotions was a sign of weakness. I thought I had to push through, solve problems immediately, and keep emotions in check. But I was wrong.
Crying isn’t a failure. It’s a release. It clears the mind, allowing us to see solutions more clearly. So here’s what I’d tell my younger self:
- Feel your emotions fully. Suppressing them only delays healing.
- Take a moment to breathe before jumping into solutions.
- Know that being strong doesn’t mean being emotionless.
The best problem-solvers aren’t the ones who suppress emotions. They’re the ones who process them and then act.
3. Writing Styles Matter—Learn More Than One
Writing was always something I enjoyed, but I stuck to what felt natural. I never actively explored different styles—journalistic, academic, creative, persuasive. That was a mistake.
If I had expanded my writing skills earlier, I would have communicated ideas more effectively in different areas of life. Here’s what I wish I had practiced:
- Storytelling techniques—making any piece engaging.
- Persuasive writing—useful for job applications and speeches.
- Concise communication—getting a point across without fluff.
Whether in emails, presentations, or essays, writing is a skill that can shape opportunities. The more styles you master, the more adaptable you become.
Final Thoughts
Advice is a gift we can give to others—but also to ourselves. If I could go back, these lessons would be at the top of my list. But while I can’t rewrite my past, I can make sure that today, I practice better financial habits, allow myself to feel emotions fully, and explore new writing styles. And maybe, just maybe, someone younger will read this and take a shortcut to wisdom that took me years to learn.
If I Could Give My Younger Self Advice
I would ask my younger self to learn more about finances. Somewhere I know very very little knowledge about money, saving and maintaining records.
I would advice the younger self to “its okay to cry 1st and think about the solution next’
I would advice my younger self to learn about different styles of writing.
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